This is a very serious and sincere post and I would really like some answers.
You know who you are.
I've had Facebook memories pop up with statuses that say "if he can't handle you at your worst, he doesn't deserve you at your best" and it made me think about how we should hold our friends the the same standard.
I have been shocked and devastated in the past 7 months as I had certain people in my life that never reached out to say one word to me or even show up to his funeral. They chose to not be there for me when I needed the support of people the most. There were strangers that came out of nowhere to be there for me. There were people I had not talked to in years that reached out to be there for me. However, the people I really thought would be there were not. I thought we were friends. I considered some of you family and you abandoned me.
In the grief group, we did a chart where we wrote out who we knew would be there for us, who surprised us by being there for us and then who you thought would be there for us but were not. Writing this out was an eye opener and heartbreaking.
If our friendship meant literally anything to you, please give me some answers. If you actually do want me in your life, I need you to tell me. I need answers because you can't fathom how much your absence actually hurt.
Please, tell me.
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